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A COTA Family is Forever Grateful for Their Daughter’s Cord Blood Donor

Published/Posted By: The Providence American
Posted: November 16, 2018

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  • November 15th is World Cord Blood Day

    November 1, 2018 -- November 15th is World Cord
    Blood Day, which is a day used to highlight the fact that more than 35,000 cord
    blood transplants have been performed worldwide since 1988 to treat more than
    80    life-threatening diseases. Yet cord blood is still thrown
    away as medical waste in the majority of births nationwide. An Arizona
    transplant family is extremely grateful the cord blood they needed to save
    their daughter’s life was donated, instead of being discarded, literally in the
    nick of time.



     



    Sophie Lee was born in February 2010 and
    adopted by Judy and Tony she was 14 months old. They were beyond thrilled to
    finally meet their beautiful daughter and very anxious to start their new
    family life together. According to Judy, Sophie was always an energetic and
    fun-loving toddler. She was always on the move and very curious about
    everything around her. Strong-willed and stubborn are also words that Mom Judy
    used to describe this charming and charismatic little girl.



     



    Right around the time Sophie turned 19 months
    old the Lees heard her crying out in the middle of the night due to serious leg
    pain. When they tried to wake her they realized she was struggling to stand or
    walk. She did settle down and fell back asleep. The next morning their toddler
    seemed perfectly normal and was no longer complaining about leg pain.



     



    As time passed, however, their beautiful
    little girl would tell Judy and Tony about periodic leg pains but her
    complaints were intermittent and were not consistent in location. Nor were they
    associated with particular activities. The one thread of commonality was time
    of day. Sophie’s leg pains typically started in the evening either at
    dinnertime or bedtime. She was thoroughly checked by the family’s pediatrician
    and a rheumatologist but everything seemed to be fine. The Lees thought these
    pains were likely growing pains and decided not to keep worrying.



     



    At Sophie’s five-year-old medical checkup, her
    pediatrician noticed that some of her white cell counts and blood cell sizes
    were out of normal range. Coupled with Sophie’s periodic leg pains, she was
    referred to a hematologist for more tests. The first series of tests he ran
    showed normal results, but because Sophie continued to complain about pain, he
    decided to proceed with a bone marrow aspiration. Within a few days after the
    test, Judy and Tony were given frightening and unbelievable news. Their little
    girl was diagnosed with a genetic bone marrow disorder called Myelodysplatic
    Syndrome (MDS), which impacts a person’s ability to produce enough healthy
    blood cells. Some people diagnosed with MDS go on to suffer with leukemia.



     



    Only a couple years prior to Sophie’s MDS
    diagnosis, Good Morning America’s Robin Roberts brought much attention to this
    disease when she publicly announced she had been diagnosed with MDS and would be
    taking a leave of absence to undergo an intense and debilitating treatment
    regimen. At the age of six, Sophie would likely be facing the same treatment
    protocol to save her life.



    All of this was a huge shock to Judy and Tony
    who kept returning to the gnawing question, “How did this happen?” Sophie had
    no prior symptoms of frequent or prolonged colds or infections that would cause
    them to seek medical counsel. The Lees were told Sophie’s only treatment option
    was a bone marrow transplant that needed to be done sooner instead of later
    before her MDS manifested into leukemia. The Lees knew there was no other
    choice.



     



    But what the Lees did not know was finding a
    donor for their daughter was going to be very complicated. According to Judy,
    “Sophie’s search for a bone marrow match, despite a worldwide search and local
    effort from our family and many friends, proved to be unsuccessful and we were
    devastated knowing each day that passed was another day closer to our little
    girl developing leukemia.”



    Sophie’s bone marrow testing did find a cord
    blood match, but that type of transplant meant a longer engraftment period, a
    longer hospital stay and a much more challenging recovery period. The Lees
    decided they needed to proceed as soon as possible because Sophie’s white blood
    cell counts were dropping dramatically. After consulting with their medical
    team, Judy and Tony made the decision to pull Sophie out of Kindergarten about
    halfway through the school year and admit her to Phoenix Children’s Hospital to
    start the cord blood transplant process.



     



    While Judy and Tony were grappling with the
    decision to move forward with Sophie’s cord blood transplant, a transplant
    family in the Phoenix area whose son had been through a bone marrow transplant
    suggested the Lees make a call to the Children’s Organ Transplant Association
    (COTA) to learn about fundraising for transplant-related expenses.



     



    COTA uniquely understands that parents who
    care for a child or young adult before, during and after a life-saving
    transplant have enough to deal with, so COTA’s model shifts the responsibility
    for fundraising to a community team of trained volunteers. On February 10,
    2016, Judy called COTA and two days later, their formal agreement to become a
    COTA family was received at the organization’s Bloomington, Indiana,
    headquarters.



     



    Sophie was admitted to Phoenix Children’s
    Hospital on February 23
    rd. On March 17th a COTA fundraising specialist travelled to Arizona to train the
    volunteers for the COTA campaign in honor of Sophie L. COTA is a 501(c)3
    charity so contributions to COTA are tax deductible to the fullest extent of
    the law, and COTA funds are available for a patient’s lifetime. This group of
    family members and friends, i.e. COTA Miracle Makers, quickly got to work
    organizing fundraisers to help with mounting transplant-related expenses.



     



    “Sophie did great with chemotherapy to wipe
    out all her diseased cells, and the cord blood stem cell transplant went
    smoothly. Shortly after that, she started to lose her hair, had less energy and
    slowly lost her appetite. Her medical team initially administered Tacrolimus
    for her immunosuppressant drug but Sophie developed high levels of toxicity
    with changes in her mental status, which was very scary to experience. She
    would not talk or communicate and it took a few weeks to flush the drug
    completely out of her system before she started speaking again. Sophie also
    developed severe graft versus host disease (GVHD) of her gut and skin, which
    also was very scary since it took a long time to get that under control.
    Eventually, she started Extracorporeal Photophoresis (ECP) to help control her
    GVHD, which thankfully improved after a few weeks.”



     



    After almost four months inpatient, Sophie was
    cleared to go home. But going home did not mean things were much easier. When
    Sophie was released she still was having issues with eating, nausea, vomiting,
    stomach pains, GI issues, skin issues and sleeping. While it was great to have
    Sophie home, the Lees had to manage the treatment of GVHD of her gut and skin,
    as well as managing her being on TPN, NG tube feeds for nutrition and a
    never-ending list of medications. There were home health professionals coming
    in and out regularly. Sophie had twice weekly clinic appointments along with
    monthly inpatient treatments, all of which had to be managed by Judy and Tony …
    and all of which added to the family’s growing total of transplant-related
    expenses.



     



    Sophie’s skin condition slowly improved but,
    unfortunately, her GI issues continued. At a follow-up appointment it was discovered
    that her gall bladder was seriously inflamed and on October 22, 2016, Sophie
    returned to the hospital to have it removed. After that surgery, her GI issues
    slowly improved and Sophie was able to start eating more and was actually
    starting to keep the food down. Sometime early in 2017 Judy and Tony finally
    noticed Sophie’s GI and skin symptoms had improved dramatically, and they were
    hearing fewer complaints from their tough little fighter. By April she was
    taken off IV fluids at night and returned to drinking and eating for all of her
    nutrition and fluids. In addition her clinic appointments were decreased to
    once a week and then every other week. Lab blood draws decreased to the
    alternate weeks; the Lee Family finally felt like they were returning to a more
    normal life.



     



    While Judy and Tony were working round the
    clock to care for Sophie with a goal of returning their family to a more normal
    routine, their team of COTA volunteers organized a very successful golf
    tournament and hit the $75,000 fundraising goal. Judy and Tony will be forever
    grateful.



     



    Thinking back and remembering some very dark
    days during Sophie’s cord blood transplant and lengthy recovery, the Lees have
    become raving COTA fans. “We were referred to the Children’s Organ Transplant
    Association (COTA) by another transplant family. Just learning there was an
    organization that could help with fundraising for transplant-related expenses
    while providing guidance eased some of our initial stress. COTA’s affiliation
    with our local Walgreens also helped tremendously with medication coordination
    and delivery. The website COTA provided gave us hope by reading the messages of
    support from so many who cared for our little girl and for us during the
    difficult and long post-transplant recovery period Sophie endured.”



     



    Once Sophie was cleared to return to her
    classroom, the family encountered more hurdles since she had been gone for
    almost a full year. The transition back to school was not smooth. Sophie began
    to show signs of PTSD, which was due to the difficulties she was having
    adjusting to a school setting. Those behaviors started exhibiting themselves at
    her clinic appointments as well; Sophie was in general becoming more fearful
    and anxious. Working with Sophie’s medical team her parents decided the best
    course of action was to do homebound schooling with the hopes she would return
    to a classroom setting once she had acquired the skills necessary to handful
    stressful situations.



     



    Today Sophie is making great strides. She
    loves ice skating, golf and swimming as well as singing and performing. Sophie
    is a budding artist and is a fan of building with Legos. She is back at school
    full time in her second grade classroom with the help of a personal aide.
    Sophie loves going to school and being with her classmates and teachers, which
    is making her feel almost like a ‘normal’ kid again. The Lee Family is thrilled
    to report they have been able to travel this year, which is something they did
    quite a lot before her transplant and being able to do so again is so
    ‘freeing.’



     



    Getting to this place, according to Judy, has
    been a long, overwhelming and tiring journey for all but it has been entirely
    worth it. Sophie’s cells are 100% donor post-transplant and for the most part
    she has been healthy. Sophie is also starting to look like (and feel like) she
    did prior to her cord blood transplant -- a transplant that saved this
    vibrant little girl’s life
    .



    When asked if she has a specific hope for the
    future Sophie replied, “I hope I get better.”



     



    November 17th is National Adoption Day and
    Thanksgiving follows just a few days later. Undoubtedly COTA’s Lee family will
    be celebrating both. Their Thanksgiving table will be full of grateful people;
    their Thanksgiving blessing will likely include a chorus of thanks for Sophie’s
    birth parents and her cord blood donor for whom they are forever
    grateful. 



     



    Happy Thanksgiving, Sophie, Judy and Tony from
    your COTA Family!

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